How to Use a Vibrator: A Couple’s Guide to Vibrator Play
Many women new to sex toy play often wonder how to use a vibrator. Most of us have grown up with sex being a taboo topic. It often takes some time to be comfortable within your sexuality if this is how you grew up.
For a man, using a vibrator with his woman may never have been an exciting idea. However, if pleasing her gets you excited, then this couple’s guide will get you super excited to use a vibrator with your girl or wife.
Using a vibrator is quite exhilarating when you know how to use one, so today we’re dedicating a quickie blog post to explain the different ways to use a vibrator couple’s style!
Use a Vibrator to Enhance Foreplay and Clitoral Stimulation (Clitoral Vibrators)
Let’s face it ladies and gents. Women love clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s vulva. The easiest way to make a woman orgasm is with adequate clitoral stimulation, and if you don’t feel comfortable going down on your woman, guys, a vibrator like the bullet (and its many variations) can be the perfect bedroom accessory for you.
With these egg or bullet-like vibrators, a woman herself, or her man, can rest the buzzing bullet on the clitoris for fast arousal. You can keep the bullet directly on the clitoris until she climaxes or you can just tease her and get her ready for you! The latter is preferred with couple’s vibrator play. This is because once she get’s her clitoral orgasm, she may just be ready to relax…or not…but the point here is that teasing your woman will have her crave you even more, and that’s what you want after all, right?
Bullets come in many varieties with speed setting, pulsation patterns, cordless and with a cord. The most unobtrusive ones are the ones with out the chord like the I Vibe Pocket Rocket.
Use a Branch Vibrator Toy to Warm Her Up or When He’s Out of Town
Don’t worry guys, not a thick tree stump. The branch vibrator refers to a toy that has both clitoral and vaginal components, hence the name “branch vibrator“. One phallic part goes in the vaginal area and there’s an external clitoral teaser attached to the branch toys. An example of a branch toy would be the all to popular Rabbit Pearl Vibrator.
Branch vibrators have tons of embellishments and features that will work different erogenous zones (the G-Spot, the super sensitive vaginal opening, the clitoris). Using a branch vibe on your woman to get her juices flowing will make sex all the better because using a toy is like foreplay on steroids.
When using a branch toy you need more than just a good lubricant, sex toy cleaner, and the toy.
Men take your time. Kiss on her neck or her favorite hot spots. Tease her with your tongue. Go down on her without directly flicking your tongue on her clitoris. Lightly do so and wet her sexual appetite.
Start by turning on the clitoral ticklers on your branch toy of choice and lightly allow the ticklers to hover over her clitoris. Is she screaming for more? Take your time and remove the ticklers. Play with the settings (high, low, pulsation patters if applicable). When you see her going ballistic, feel her lips and see if she is wet enough for you to insert the penis/phallic shaped part of your branch toy. Tease her for a few minutes until she is ready to craving to make love to you.
Now, don’t worry gents if you think your wife or girlfriend will like the vibe more than your penis. A vibe is just a foreplay tool if used together. If you’re a blogger, really its just like an add on or WordPress widget to that enhances the visitor (your wife’s) experience. Nothing can replace sex with a man. Take it from me, an 7 year sex toy party plan gal. Ain’t nothin’ like the real thing. 
Now ladies when he is out of town, however, you have a “tie me over” until he gets home! When he gets home and finds you playing with your vibe, you will arouse him so quick that you’ll get it really good!
How to Use a Couple’s Vibrator
There are also special couple’s toys that give you both the time of your lives. These tend to be for the more experienced vibrator users. Many of these are really powerful and will have you both screaming like you’ve never screamed before. These couples toys are built to slide on the man’s penis (like a magic/cock ring) and have ticklers that tickle the clitoris and the boys down south (a.ka. the balls). An example is the Twin Rabbit Ear Couple’s Toy.
As with all toys use a good lubricant (lube). It will help with easy penetration and avoid any discomfort if your girl is not wet enough on her own.
What questions do you have about using a vibrator with your lover?
Once you experiment and apply these tips you’ll forget you even asked how to use a vibrator in the first place!
Angelise
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You have tested it and writing form your personal experience or you find some information online?
Hi Shamus,
Thank you for stoppin by and commenting. All of the reviews at VRS are from our personal experience. Lexi and I have been involved in the adult home party and sex toy business for a combined 14+ years. We hope you’ve found the reviews here useful and welcome your feeback anytime. Feel free to click on the About tab to learn more about Lexi and I.
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