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Reaching Orgasm with a Vibrator

Posted by Angelise in How To Guide, Orgasm Tips on Jan 23rd, 2010 | no responses

So by now, you know we love vibrator play. Many of you have asked for more “how to” information, so please enjoy the following 5 Tips to Reaching Orgasms with a Vibrator!

Vibrator Orgasms 101

Vibrator Orgasms are usually intense, especially for those who are newer to vibrator play! The buzz on a clitoral toy like a bullet or even a 2 pronged (branch toy) like the Rabbit Pearl can usually make a female orgasm very quickly.

On the other hand there are many women and couples who are also new to vibrator play and don’t know where to start. I will address both scenarios.

After all, there is a science to playing with vibrators that will allow you to be fully satisfied (wink).

Females can have 3 different types of orgasms.

1) Clitoral

2) Vaginal

3) G-Spot

Vibrators can work one of these, two of these, or all of these (these are those Rolls Royce Vibes like the Rabbit Pearl and the Rock Chick). Thank heaven!

Let’s focus on reaching a blended Clitoral/Vaginal orgasm with a vibe in this article and we’ll come back another time to give you tips on how to reach the G-Spot orgasm with your vibrator(s) in future articles (so be sure to subscribe and get updates by email on the top right of this blog).

Reaching Clitoral Orgasm with a Vibrator

Reaching clitoral orgasm with a vibe is very simple. Simply rest any bullet or vibrating bunny ears (or other animal) on the clitoris. Start off with low intensity (if you have speed setting control) and try and vary the pattern, length of time, and the motion around the clitoris.

The clitoris is super sensitive and will respond to touch very quickly. If you’re new to vibe play, you’ll definitely want to be gentle and start off at the lowest speed setting offered by your vibe. Test the waters.

Would you like it faster? Gradually increase the speed/intensity of your vibrator as you feel is necessary. If it feels like you are going to cum, lower the speed and stop playing with your clitoris. Start inserting your fingers or (if you have a branch vibe) just insert the phallic part of your vibe and enjoy the extra sensitivity you will feel along your vaginal walls.

Now that your clitoris is engorged after all of the clitoral play, your vaginal walls will also become swollen, more sensitive to the touch, and moist.

If you’re more experienced, you’ll want to spice up your clitoral play with a nice female orgasm gel like Sliquid Organics, which will help sensitize your clitoris even more to the touch.

Reaching Vaginal Orgasm with a Vibrator

Out of the three orgasms, a vaginal orgasm is hardest to come by (yes a pun was intended). It is easiest to facilitate this one by having constant clitoral stimulation and then also stimulating the vagina. The more stimulated the clitoris is, the more wet your coochie will get. Like with the clitoral orgasm, vary the speed, angle, intensity and alternate between vaginal only, clitoral only, and clitoral and vaginal play.

Of course there are many different types of vibes that will help you reach some erogenous zones more than others. When you have a toy that hits all three orgasm zones (clitoral, vaginal, and G-spot) it is oh so powerful and a sweet experience.The main point is to experiment and use variation. Variation is key to powerful orgasms!

Full Service Foreplay – For the VRS Guys

If you are using your vibrator with your significant other make sure that instead of resting the vibrator on the clitoris forever or inserting the dildo or vibrator in and out until your girl starts paying attention to that cobweb on the ceiling, make sure to also:

Fondle her hot spots while you buzz her with the vibe (not all women’s spots are the same)
Lick gently and lightly over her clitoris, nipples while you play
Tease her with the vibrator. Pound her then slow it down like you’re driving Miss Daisy.
Give oral while you insert the vibrator, but don’t make her climax too fast
Tongue kiss her vagina fast and slow (but please focus on the clitoris)
Finger her. One finger or four. Explore.

Stop and start. Explore all over for full service body foreplay! Make sure that you take your time!

When you use toys together and keep it fresh with different foreplay techniques those are guaranteed to be some of the most explosive orgasms you’ve had (flashback)! Aye, Aye, Aye!

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