This post is especially for the guys who are wondering, “Is she really digging what I am doing in bed?”
Let’s face it, you’ve been with a woman whose faked it or just embellished how good you were in bed. Unfortunately, some women aren’t as verbal as others. Some women shy away from communication when it comes to sex. When your woman is nonverbal, in and outside the bedroom, and you lack that communication, how can you be sure you are rocking her world?
If she is thrusting to meet you, chances are she’s loving what you are giving her and wants more. If she’s lying like a limp noodle then you know for sure she is in “bedroom la la land” thinking about what to cook for dinner. If you’re giving it to her from behind doggy-style and she is meeting you, you’re doing a good job. The more engaged she is, chances are the more she is loving what she feels, even if she isn’t a big moaner.
Oooh, the good old back arching is a clear sign she is loving the sex-capade. If her head rolls back along with the arching of her back, then you’re hitting her spot! It is a “give me more of that good stuff” non-verbal.
If she is lying down and you are working it, chances are she will also grab the bed sheets. It is a clear sign that she can’t contain herself. However, observe the way she is grabbing things, as it can also suggest she may be getting it “too deep”. You can tell by her facial expression whether or not it’s a sign of pain or pleasure. If the facial expression shows delight and she’s grabbing, you’re doing well!
When she pulls her own locks, then you’re definitely doing something right! This is the “Oh my goodness, he’s so good” sign!
When that fanny is in the air, she is enjoying you. She wants you and she wants you bad, so give it, give it!
Not all women get aroused or tickled by nipple pinching, but if you know one of your woman’s spots are her nipples, then it’s a good thing she’s pinching them. Either she needs a little more stimulation to get her going, or she wants to add a little more sensual touch to compliment your tongue or the ride!
If she is grabbing your head and pulling your face into her va-jay-jay, she is loving the oral you are giving her. A thrust of her hips or circular pelvic motions means you are getting her there! Keep eating!
A woman who wants to please her man just as much as he is pleasing her might disengage in sexual activity to please you just because. If she suddenly tells you to stop eating her, or she jumps off your love stick and goes to town on you, then she is thanking you for awesome sex!
If you receive a sensual deep kiss while you’re giving it to her, she is satisfied with your performance.
I think we all know about this one. If here nails are lodged in your back she is receiving waves of pleasure from you.
There are many other non-verbals that tell you you’re giving it to her well!
Angelise
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Pulling her hair gently does the trick every time! Love the article thanks