Are you at work dreading the last few hours and watching the clock thinking “TGIF I can’t wait to get outta here!†Or maybe you’re thinking “TGIF I want to go home and get down with the hair pulling and spanking with my hunny boo for a naughty night!†Since Friday’s seem to drag on when you’re at work and everyone can’t wait to get the weekend started, I thought it would be fitting to kick off “Frisky Fridayâ€. And what better way than with an “Everything you always wanted to know about G-spot stimulation but were afraid to “ask†guide. You don’t want to miss this one; awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter†techniques!
WHAT IS IT? I must admit like many, I was a skeptic, but after 7 years of educating women on all aspects of G-spot stimulation and practicing what I preached, I have now seen the light. The Grafenberg spot is real and is a great pleasure for some women; for others, it might be a new unexplored pleasure spot. So if you are a newcomer to G-spot stimulation, don’t be afraid. Arm yourself with these G-spot facts first and you will open up a whole body experience. For those G-spot addicts, you may just find a new G-spot vibrator or as I like to affectionately refer to it as your B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)! Sure “Fire Starter†way to get your rocks off and kick it up a notch in the bedroom. 
Every woman on the face of this Earth is blessed with a G-spot – like the clitoris, the vagina and the anus, is a part of every woman’s constellation of sex organs. And if you’ve always had a ‘special spot’ in your vagina that you’ve tried to hit during intercourse, you’ll be able to pinpoint it with more accuracy. As with so many things, knowing what you’re doing gives you better control. It was named after the sex researcher Ernst Grafenberg. who first wrote about its erotic potential in 1982. Put aside the controversy about clitoral versus vaginal, research on the Grafenberg Spot indicate that women are more capable of a whole set on continuous sexual responses which involve both clitoral and vaginal stimulation alone or what I call a “blended orgasmâ€.
Being a sexpert you would think I have THE G-spot roadmap however, it took me a while to find my Grafenberg Spot. So be patient with your body, take the time to get to know your vagina, and note these tips (and see diagram):
You can locate the G-spot by using your fingers to explore the vaginal walls. You’ve got the magic touch – your fingertips. It’s a lot easier to locate than you think. There’s no need to deep-sea dive — this tissue is just inside the vaginal opening, about an inch and a half in. When aroused, that’s the area that will swell to somewhere between pistachio and walnut size, and, for many people, becomes a place of intense sexual pleasure. The G-spot, also called the urethral sponge, is a small, rigid, oval shaped area of soft tissue, I call my “silky pillowâ€. Located 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline. It wraps around the urethra and swells with fluid during sexual arousal. As the spongy tissue fills with fluid, the swelling pushes into the vagina, if you put your hand on your belly you can actually feel it. When women ejaculate, it’s the clear, watery fluid that has collected in this tissue that leaves a wet mark on the sheets. Some ladies think they’ve actually wet the bed during sex, and are so embarrassed thus reluctant to try again for fear they will flood the bedroom! No need to call the plumber ladies; again just arm yourself with these awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter†techniques in this series.
If you have orgasms, you’ve probably noticed different kinds. Sometimes they feel like a roar of sexual energy, sometimes like a ripple of satisfaction. G-spot orgasms are like another instrument in the big band of sexual response. There’s no one perfect G-spot orgasm technique. Women describe their G-spot orgasms as deep, whole-body, leg quivering experiences. They can last longer and can be made up of more and longer contractions than other types of orgasm. Many women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Sometimes women discover this by surprise, when they happen to devote a little more time to sex. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play?
For more information, check out Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot by Kathy Wilkes. Great information your mama never knew is now at your fingertips. Keep it as a bedside table reference and you will master the art of G-spot stimulation in no time.
Thirsty for more? Check back for more tantalizing facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter†techniques!
Helping you hit the spot,
Lexi B.
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Hi Lexi…I’ve had the pleasure to find my way to the G SPOT by exploring and enjoying the womans body. Studying reactions during foreplay, is one key to my success. To date I’ve been with 5 ladies in my sexual life, 3 of which never squirted before and the rest could only squirt if they felt totally uninhibited and relaxed with the right partner.I am fortunate to be able to say, that one lady friend was as I call her a Niagra Squirter, Projectile Ejaculator and the others varied from trickles to splashers. I understand from articles I have read it is rare to reach this kind of orgasm but, not impossible for many women. I noticed that the G Spot has a different texture from the other tissue in the vagina. By pressing on it and manipulating the amount of pressure, I could actually smell the urine which is a known factor that the G Spot is being stimulated well. I tell my lady friends to relax and allow the feeling to happen.
They have had some very long lasting orgasms in waves and one particular lady and I were so deeply in tune that she claims to have counted 23 varying orgasms in the form of squirting while I was lost with her in deep sexual pleasure…both vaginal and anal. I did have to remove myself quickly as her cries of pleasure increased in order to actually see and understand the intense level of her orgasm…that is something to behold! I hope your male readers can enjoy what I have experienced!It’s almost spiritual at this level of pleasure.
Its an amazingly satisfying experience when your partner reaches this level of sexuallity…nothing better for the male libido and ego!
Nick….XOXOX
Wow nick sounds like you have found the fountain of G-Spot youth…from the Niagra Squirters to Projectile Ejaculators and everything in between!! You have carefully studies a woman’s body and know how to manipulate her zone, so you my friend are a Master G-Spotter!!! I too hope our male readers can enjoy this awesome post & comment combo, sure to help assist even the beginner G-Spot adventurers
Thanks for being a loyal reader and look forward to your sexpert feedback soon,
XoXoXo
Lexi B.
Thank you Lexi for this wonderful web site and information.
I’m happy you replied and if theres ever a video upload feature on your site. I wll upload my short video…the guys and gals will be impressed and shocked (pleasantly) at a close up view of a Projectile Orgasm & Niagra woman. My lover at the time asked me to video this profound experience, because at first she thought…I was urinating on her during intercourse. I know it sounds funny, but she genuinely thought it was me!
Nick…XOXOX