Female orgasm gels are a dime a dozen, and as a 7-year Adult Home-Party Diva, I’ve recently had the pleasure of testing the Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel. I am favorably reporting back (thank you Babeland for sending this one in)!
Sliquid Organics is an all-natural arousal gel that will make the clitoris more sensitive to the touch. Applying less than a pea-sized amount to the clitoris or your favorite vibrator will have your clitoral area feeling warm and tingly. This one is a keeper. As a matter of fact, it is now in my night stand, and gets used a few times a week. It’s now one of my staple orgasm gels.
Unlike many gels or creams that have you hopping up and down like there was a fire in your panties, Sliquid’s feel is light, mildy warm to the touch, and is all-natural! It’s formula base is listed at the bottom of this blog post, so if you are eco-conscious, you can feel safe knowing that this orgasm gel is a 100% vegan, organic formula.
The only small concern I can see for those women using latex condoms for protection, is that it does contain natural oils that are not latex-compatible. No biggie though. Sliquid Organics Stimulating “O” Gel rocks.
Purified water, Plant Cellulose (from cotton), Aloe Barbadensis*, Natural Tocopherols (Vitamin E), Cyamopsis (Guar Gum), Peppermint Oil, Sweet Almond Oil, Menthol, Citric Acid (Citrus Fruits), Extracts of Hibiscus*, Flax*, Green Tea* and Sunflower Seed*
* Organic botanical extracts are independently certified by Quality Certification Services in compliance with the USDA National Organic Program.
You can get Sliquid Organics Stimulating O Gel at Babeland – type “Sliquid O Gel” in the search bar.
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Has your love life lost its spark? Are you stuck in a rut? And when it does happen, it often waits for weekends, holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and for some of you – even leap years!? Here are 5 more HOT Tips for Sex sure to drive your lover crazy.
Don’t worry, what’s happening to you is perfectly normal and happens to the best of us. Everyone hits a wall every now and then because routines are easy and comforting especially when couples stay together for months, years or decades.
So HOT, you may spark a flame in the bedroom!
Blowjob, oral deed, Bj’s, giving head, going down, fellatio. Whatever you call it, men will do anything to get it. We all wish it came with instructions the first time you tried it. Did you know men dream about the female mouth more than the Vagina. They are both wet, warm and tight however, the mouth has a tongue that licks. You don’t even have to taste or swallow it (try it you might just like it). It’s all about technique, something we tend to ignore and often rush to get the dirty job done. Make eye contact, look at him seductively every now and then. If your mouth get’s dry, sip water or drizzle flavored lube, don’t rush make it a sexy production. Take his penis in and out of your mouth a few times, look at it and smile. Talk to him, tell him how good it feels and you get off doing this for him. Stroke with your hands when you start to get “lock jaw” and try using a penis gel, get’s him off in “60 seconds or less” and helps eliminate the gag reflex.
Take your time and what better way to Kick off the 4th of July than with a good “hum job,” in which you put your lips around his testicles and hum “The Star Spangle Banner.”
Experiment with pillows, restraints, blindfolds, whips, swings, slings and discover that power exchange can be very empowering! Discover what turns you on.
There is something out there for everyone, from the nervous novice to the polished pro. Body positioners like wedge pillows are a favorite, designed to contour your aroused bodies, these wedges, angle you for new erotic sex positions and elevations. Swing sets aren’t for the playground anymore. Simply send him to the hardware store for a stud finder and screw the swing into a ceiling beam or sturdy door frame, some of my clients have set up their “swing set” in a walk in closet or garage. Enjoy gravity-defying fun with a swing which can enhance sexual arousal, Kama Sutra, Tantric Sex, awesome G-Spot stimulation just to name a few.
Tie him to the bedpost with cozy restraints, nothing like showing up to work the next morning with red wrist and let everyone know your business. Take a whip with a tickler on one end, blindfold him then tickle his body then whip him. Talk dirty, get flirty, relax and role play a little. Try this hot sex tip and you both might find this to be the best night you’ve had in ages.
Squeaky-clean fun and one of the most popular ways women learn to achieve their first orgasm is in the tub. What better place, to relax and release. Place your hips under warm water for clitoral stimulation, aim a jet of warm water from a handheld showerhead to tantalize your clitoris. Make a big splash with a Waterproof toy. A vibrator in the shower gives you reason to sing! The shower can provide an oasis of privacy especially if you have children it’s a discreet way to explore. If you’re a first timer experiment with one of the following waterproof toys: round vibrating sponge ball, bullets, G-Spot toy, massager, even a rubber duckie waterproof toy just to name a few!
Adds new meaning to rub a dub, dub!
One of the best reasons to love waterproof toys is the simplest: they’re easy to clean. If you hate high-maintenance toys and materials, a waterproof toy is perfect for you.
If you knew there was a creative way to make sex extra stimulating, you would try it, right? Well, start thinking with your palate. Incorporating food into your sexual repertoire intensifies the experience and heightens the senses of smell and taste. There’s nothing more sensual than feeding your lover chocolate covered strawberries.
Getting tired of hearing the mattress springs…boing, boing, boing! Be bold, be daring, be mischievous. Think beyond the bedroom, start with home but get creative. Think of places you’ve never explored, the laundry room, the staircase, countertop, closet, deck or balcony and get ready for hotter sex. Men find it HOT when you’re comfy being naughty, so ladies let him see your wild side!
Sex in the great outdoors can be adventurous and erotic. “Alfresco sex” is neither for everyone nor every day. Choosing the right time and place is key. Erotic picnic, rooftop, sex on the beach, golf course, park and playground can be wild especially if you bring a multi-tasking waterproof flashlight/keychain/vibrator all in one, great for outdoor adventures. If you love backpacking, camping, rafting, or kayaking, there’s no reason to leave your B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) at home.
Bonus Tip for Hot Sex:If you have the new app iphone, with over 100 vibrations, you’ll have lots of new adventures. Talk about “taking a trip on the wild side!”
Good Vibrations,
Lexi B.
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If you’re finding yourself with a case of bedroom boredom it’s time to implement the following 7 tips for sex in the bedroom.
One of the greatest physical joys is the feeling of euphoria while enjoying your lovers touch, company and his or her motions. But if you’re no longer excited about sex, something’s completely off the mark. Below are 7 surefire tips for hotter sex with your lover.
Now you’re probably expecting me to tell you to masturbate, but what I’m really saying is enjoy your curves. No one is perfect, and we live in this world of “plastic perfection” that is surreal. God made you unique and beautiful. Don’t worry about the little cellulite or the few extra pounds you’ve put on. When you’re not confident with who you are (not only just how you look), it really shows in the bedroom. When you lack that confidence, you don’t enjoy yourself because you’re worrying about things like:
“Does he see my stretch marks? or “Does he notice my butt got fatter/skinnier?”
Guys don’t even see or care about stretch marks when you’re having sex. They are enjoying you, so enjoy him too! Guys, am I right or right? Jump in the conversation here.
Okay, this time I DO mean please yourself. Masturbation is natural and healthy. Getting to know your body will help you communicate your likes and dislikes to your lover.
Use your fingers or a vibrator to explore your curves while he’s not around in the privacy of your bedroom. Experiment with soft, hard, and direct touch. The more you know what you like the more empowered and sexier you will feel.
Play with yourself when he IS around too. Masturbating in front of him will make him go berserk. He’ll see that you’re confident in your skin, and that you’re uninhibited. That in and of itself will make him want you even more. When you do implement this one hot sex tip, you’ll find that night might just be the best sex you’ve ever had.
Forget about the office, politics, family drama. If you take stress into the bedroom, it becomes the ultimate recipe for crappy sex. When your mind is not there your body can’t accept the pleasure its receiving. Clear you mind.
Not only will you drive him, or her, wild, but when you have a sexy teddy on you’re more confident. Although they do want to see you in the flesh, lace, pearls, and leather embellish your curves and drive him insane. Dress the part, look the part, feel the part.
I must admit, I used to the one to be focused on getting mine and climaxing. I wanted to rush through sex and climax. That’s totally the wrong thing to do if you want to impress your lover. This will only show that you’re only interested in yourself. Hot sex is about pleasing each other. Focus on each unique touch, event, position, motion. Just enjoy yourself and the orgasm will come.
This is an area where guys tend to breeze through. Guys, don’t be cheap here. Women need significantly more physical touch than men. Go down on your woman (perform cunnilingus) and women, go down on your men (perform fellatio). Don’t make each other climax with oral sex, unless you decide to. Be a tease. Make your lover crave that extra second of touch. You will find the sex to be steamier and more pleasurable with the right mix of foreplay.
Foreplay can also entail kissing areas you’ve never kissed before. Explore each others’ bodies. See if you discover a new erogenous zone that will make her go wild.
Missionary just sucks. Buy a sex position card game or book. Be adventurous and be vocal about what you do and do not like. Ladies, if you don’t tell him it doesn’t feel good he’ll keep thinking that it does. communication is key to a satisfying sex life. Try positions that are comfortable for you and your lover. While guys might like your legs to be over his shoulder’s he has to realize that maybe you’re not all that flexible. If you are comfortable with something like that, go for it. This position rocks.
Experiment.
Ultimately, you and your lover are unique, different, and might like somethings more than others, but you will never know until you experiment!
Speak your mind, y’all.
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