Is Your Sex is Great: 10 Definitive Nonverbal Tips That Tell

This post is especially for the guys who are wondering, “Is she really digging what I am doing in bed?”

Let’s face it, you’ve been with a woman whose faked it or just embellished how good you were in bed.  Unfortunately, some women aren’t as verbal as others.  Some women shy away from communication when it comes to sex.  When your woman is nonverbal, in and outside the bedroom, and you lack that communication, how can you be sure you are rocking her world?

Here are 10 Nonverbal Tips that Prove She Thinks Your Sex is Great

1) She’s Meeting Your Thrust

If she is thrusting to meet you, chances are she’s loving what you are giving her and wants more.  If she’s lying like a limp noodle then you know for sure she is in “bedroom la la land” thinking about what to cook for dinner.  If you’re giving it to her from behind doggy-style and she is meeting you, you’re doing a good job.  The more engaged she is, chances are the more she is loving what she feels, even if she isn’t a big moaner.

2) Arching Her Back

Oooh, the good old back arching is a clear sign she is loving the sex-capade.  If her head rolls back along with the arching of her back, then you’re hitting her spot!  It is a “give me more of that good stuff” non-verbal.

3) Grabbing the Bed Sheets or Comforter

If she is lying down and you are working it,  chances are she will also grab the bed sheets.  It is a clear sign that she can’t contain herself.  However, observe the way she is grabbing things, as it can also suggest she may be getting it “too deep”.   You can tell by her facial expression whether or not it’s a sign of pain or pleasure.  If the facial expression shows delight and she’s grabbing, you’re doing well!

4) Pulling Her Own Hair

When she pulls her own locks, then you’re definitely doing something right!  This is the “Oh my goodness, he’s so good” sign!

5) Lifting Her Derriere

When that fanny is in the air, she is enjoying you.  She wants you and she wants you bad, so give it, give it!

6) Pinching Her Nipples

Not all women get aroused or tickled by nipple pinching, but if you know one of your woman’s spots are her nipples, then it’s a good thing she’s pinching them.  Either she needs a little more stimulation to get her going, or she wants to add a little more sensual touch to compliment your tongue or the ride!

7) Grabbing Your Head While You’re Going Down

If she is grabbing your head and pulling your face into her va-jay-jay, she is loving the oral you are giving her.   A thrust of her hips or circular pelvic motions means you are getting her there!  Keep eating!

8 ) Giving You Head Like You’ve Never Gotten It

A woman who wants to please her man just as much as he is pleasing her might disengage in sexual activity to please you just because.  If she suddenly tells you to stop eating her, or she jumps off your love stick and goes to town on you, then she is thanking you for awesome sex!

9) Deep Kissing

If you receive a sensual deep kiss while you’re giving it to her, she is satisfied with your performance.

10) The Nail Scratching

I think we all know about this one.  If here nails are lodged in your back she is receiving waves of pleasure from you.

There are many other non-verbals that tell you you’re giving it to her well!

What Facial Expression, Action or other Non-verbal Que Have you Noticed that Showed you you were rocking her world?  Please share!

Angelise

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Lady Gaga Blow up Doll: “Lady Gag Gag”

Not only is it Frisky Friday, but this month marks the 1 year Anniversary of VRS. I thought I would start off with something light and humerous…..Blow up Dolls!

Juicy posts to follow, so make sure to subscribe to our VRS blog so you won’t miss any action.

Enter The Lady Gag Gag Blow up Doll

The ‘Lady Gag Gag’ blow up doll was created by Pipedream Products, and according to the press release, you can “just add air and she’ll let you poke-her face.”

From the makers of “The Beyonce Love Doll,” “J-Ho,” and “Lindsay Lohan Fully Loaded,” comes the perfect gift for obsessed and undersexed “PokerFace” fans everywhere — The Inflatable Gaga.  Everybody’s going goo-goo for Gag Gag!  She’s a sweet catholic schoolgirl who became a whore packing a little something more!  Meet the Lady Gag Gag, blow up doll, “the deep-throat drag queen who’ll suck the chrome off a disco ball faster than you can say Just Dance!”

This dirty lil’ diva wants to take a ride on your disco stick and has all the right moves.  Just add air and she’ll let you poke-her face. You won’t get caught in a Bad Romance this time! Ra ra oh la la!”

What Pipedream Products Has to Say About Their Blow Up Dolls and Our Lady Gag Gag!

Pipedream Products are producing the Gaga blow up doll as part of its Super Star Series, the best-selling line of blow-up dolls on the market. Manufacturers expect the tantilizing Lady Gag Gag to be one of the XXX-rated world’s biggest sellers of the year.

“When it comes to gag factor, Lady Gag Gag’s got it,” says Kevin Johnson, Marketing Manager of Pipedream Products. “We’ve found that more and more people who have no intention of using them for sex are buying these types of items as gag gifts or collectables. Lady Gag Gag, like all the dolls in our Super Star Series, is the perfect item for retailers to stock up on and beef up your sales this summer,” Johnson adds. “This is going to be one of those boxes people are going to collect and display proudly for friends to come over and talk about. We definitely recommend everyone stock up because she is going to sell out fast!”

The ‘Lady Gag Gag’ blow up doll is quite possibly one of the most epic products, and blow up dolls, I have ever seen in my years of reviewing sex toy products. Who knows, maybe I will start collecting this line for the laugh factor.  Like to purchase one yourself?  Contact us to pre-order your love doll!

Po-Po-Po-Poker Face Po-Po Poke her Face!

Gotta Love it!

Own your own Lady Gaga Blow up Doll? Do you love it? Want to submit your own review? Submit your written review to VRS by clicking on “Guest Post” top left of our blog.

Good Vibrations,

Sexpert Lexi B.

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Why Use a Vibrator on Your Woman or Lover?

Ok, so I came across a VERY interesting conversation today with two gentlemen who were straight up anti-vibrator.  “Why would you use a vibrator on your woman,” they asked.  This question really surprised me because hear at VRS (vibratorreviewspot.com) we get a lot of requests from our male friends on how to use a vibrator with your woman, wife or spouse.

We Want to Hear from YOU Men:  Why Use a Vibrator on Your Woman?

Questions for the Guys – Get Mentioned in our Upcoming Sex and Orgasm Course

1) Why would you want to use a vibrator on your woman?
2) Are you intimidated by the use of a vibrator? If so why?
3) What about vibrator play excites you the most?

Please be thorough with your answers.  We will be voting on the top 3 answers from the men on this blog post (and or vibrator experts YouTube channel comments). Go ahead tell us what your thoughts are on using a vibrator on your woman.  The deadline for your entries will be March 5th, 2010.

We look forward to your comments!

Angelise

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How to use a Vibrator on Her

Want to make your woman want YOU more in bed? Want her to eagerly look forward to and initiate your love making sessions? Well a good way to start is by learning how to use a vibrator on her.

You may be thinking “I know how to please my woman she doesn’t need a dildo”, well you’re in fact mistaken. In this two part series the following tips will assist you in your journey on how to use a vibrator on her.

First things first, four common questions guys ask themselves:

1) Why does my girlfriend need a vibrator?

Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm —and vibrators deliver powerful, consistent stimulation like nothing else can. The extra oomph that vibrators give to the clitoris is just what many women need to come—whether alone or with a partner. 80% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Vibrators have helped many pre-orgasmic women reach that longed-for first orgasm, and have brought reliable satisfaction to many others. Vibrators can lightly massage muscles and body parts or directly stimulate her vulva. And why wouldn’t you want to be a part of that experience?

2) Will it replace me?

NO! There is nothing like a man’s touch and physical intimacy from a man however, today more and more women are introducing vibes into partner sex. Using a vibrator with your partner means a woman can enjoy all that powerful, sexy, turned-on energy you both are generating, in fact this means more sex for you! In many cases once she gets going she may not need or have interest in the vibrator. Some couples have used a vibrator to give her first ever orgasm, and then have used what they learned from that to give her orgasms in other ways.

3) How do I help her climax?

Cutting back too soon on stimulation may interrupt her orgasmic potential. Some women get hypersensitive the way most men do – if she is you will need to back off before or as she finishes. Turn the speed down slowly and gradually, rather than breaking contact with her body. Be sure to lie still and hold her after she climaxes. Kiss her gently and enjoy her orgasmic pleasure, you can bask in the moment with her as you will have reached a certain level of excitement.

4) What if I like it?

Who knows you too might enjoy the extra buzz during masturbation delivered by a vibrating penis sleeve or cock ring or a strategically placed tiny vibe. I’ve yet to have met a guy who didn’t like the feeling of a vibrator at the base of his shaft or under his “boys down south”. Have her buzz a Single Bullet or cylindrical vibe on your boys and taint. Introduce the idea of her playing with the vibe once you have pleased her and mastered the art of the “sword”.

If she has never had multiple “O’s”, but wants to try, a vibrator is a great way to learn.

Last but not least….
How to use a vibrator on her:

First try laying side by side, many women prefer this as they feel emotionally connected to you. Start by massaging her clitoris and inner labia with a gentle two-finger massage (use a dime-size amount of lubricant). Use the flat of your finger tips. Take three or four fingers, side by side and flat, and position them between her outer labia. Apply slight pressure and stroke her with one hand then place the vibrator in between her labia, over the clitoris then cup your hand over the vibrator. Speed control is very important, make sure you start the speed on slow so that you don’t over stimulate her. Then gradually turn up the speed as she peaks her Orgasm – but be sure not to turn up the speed too quickly or too high. Some women prefer full speed before orgasm however, some women may never want more than the slight buzz of a vibrator like the Juliet. Next push the vibrator, slowly and just slightly into her and hold for several minutes or push in and out gently. You can then move the vibe parallel to her labia or left to right or in a vibrator small circular motions. Listen to her commands and pay close attention to her moans. If her body movements have a rhythm, then you know she likes it.

By mastering the vibrator and learning how to please her first, you’ll find your connection and bond getting stronger and deeper emotionally. So take the time to get to know her body, think selflessly, laugh and celebrate a new beginning with vibrator play.

Don’t forget the lube:

As with all toys use a good lubricant (lube). Women vary greatly in the amount of natural wetness their bodies produce. Weather her body produces a mass amounts of natural lubrication or dry when she’s aroused, lube can enhance a sexual session. Lube helps with easy penetration and avoid any discomfort if your partner is not wet enough on her own. There are many types of lubes on the market: water-based, flavored, jelly and my favorite (multi-use) silicone lube, Eros-Bodyglide.

P.S. Saliva (spit) is NOT a substitute for lube! In most cases it is a turn off for a woman and we won’t even go into the bacteria in your mouth, not attractive and a definite “buzz kill”.

What questions do you have about using a vibrator with your lover?

Feel free to ask questions or let us know how this helped inspire and or intensified your partner play by leaving a comment.

Good Vibrations,

Lexi B.

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