Recently, I wrote a post on reaching orgasm with a vibrator. I had so much fun writing that post and had so many more ideas in my head on making sure you’re getting strong vibrator orgasms, that I decided to list 25 ways to get that orgasm you’ve always wanted using your vibrator.
Please comment below and let us know if:
a) You’ve tried any of these
b) Would like to add another tip to the list
c) Have benefited from reading these tips
Enjoy those vibrator orgasms!
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So by now, you know we love vibrator play. Many of you have asked for more “how to” information, so please enjoy the following 5 Tips to Reaching Orgasms with a Vibrator!
Vibrator Orgasms are usually intense, especially for those who are newer to vibrator play! The buzz on a clitoral toy like a bullet or even a 2 pronged (branch toy) like the Rabbit Pearl can usually make a female orgasm very quickly.
On the other hand there are many women and couples who are also new to vibrator play and don’t know where to start. I will address both scenarios.
After all, there is a science to playing with vibrators that will allow you to be fully satisfied (wink).
Females can have 3 different types of orgasms.
1) Clitoral
2) Vaginal
3) G-Spot
Vibrators can work one of these, two of these, or all of these (these are those Rolls Royce Vibes like the Rabbit Pearl and the Rock Chick). Thank heaven!
Let’s focus on reaching a blended Clitoral/Vaginal orgasm with a vibe in this article and we’ll come back another time to give you tips on how to reach the G-Spot orgasm with your vibrator(s) in future articles (so be sure to subscribe and get updates by email on the top right of this blog).
Reaching Clitoral Orgasm with a Vibrator
Reaching clitoral orgasm with a vibe is very simple. Simply rest any bullet or vibrating bunny ears (or other animal) on the clitoris. Start off with low intensity (if you have speed setting control) and try and vary the pattern, length of time, and the motion around the clitoris.
The clitoris is super sensitive and will respond to touch very quickly. If you’re new to vibe play, you’ll definitely want to be gentle and start off at the lowest speed setting offered by your vibe. Test the waters.
Would you like it faster? Gradually increase the speed/intensity of your vibrator as you feel is necessary. If it feels like you are going to cum, lower the speed and stop playing with your clitoris. Start inserting your fingers or (if you have a branch vibe) just insert the phallic part of your vibe and enjoy the extra sensitivity you will feel along your vaginal walls.
Now that your clitoris is engorged after all of the clitoral play, your vaginal walls will also become swollen, more sensitive to the touch, and moist.
If you’re more experienced, you’ll want to spice up your clitoral play with a nice female orgasm gel like Sliquid Organics, which will help sensitize your clitoris even more to the touch.
Reaching Vaginal Orgasm with a Vibrator
Out of the three orgasms, a vaginal orgasm is hardest to come by (yes a pun was intended). It is easiest to facilitate this one by having constant clitoral stimulation and then also stimulating the vagina. The more stimulated the clitoris is, the more wet your coochie will get. Like with the clitoral orgasm, vary the speed, angle, intensity and alternate between vaginal only, clitoral only, and clitoral and vaginal play.
Of course there are many different types of vibes that will help you reach some erogenous zones more than others. When you have a toy that hits all three orgasm zones (clitoral, vaginal, and G-spot) it is oh so powerful and a sweet experience.The main point is to experiment and use variation. Variation is key to powerful orgasms!
Full Service Foreplay – For the VRS Guys
If you are using your vibrator with your significant other make sure that instead of resting the vibrator on the clitoris forever or inserting the dildo or vibrator in and out until your girl starts paying attention to that cobweb on the ceiling, make sure to also:
Stop and start. Explore all over for full service body foreplay! Make sure that you take your time!
When you use toys together and keep it fresh with different foreplay techniques those are guaranteed to be some of the most explosive orgasms you’ve had (flashback)! Aye, Aye, Aye!
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Babeland.com chose a lucky few “vibrator experts” to review the Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage video, so as you can imagine our excitement when we received this one! My love for BDSM had me really excited to get started on this sex educational video. I must admit watching “instructional porn” is a turn on
. It’s Sex Ed for a whole new generation.
Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage is from Vivid Entertainment and Smart Ass Productions. Directed by Tristan Taormino and written and hosted by Sex Expert and Author Midori. Sex expert Midori introduces couples to the world of adventurous sex by sharing her vast knowledge about one of the most intimate activities: Sensual bondage. With fun, useful tips and tricks, she show’s you step-by-step how to tie up your lover to take your sexual experiences to the next level.
Sex Expert Midori is an acclaimed writer and lecturer on a wide range of sexual topics and has vast experience as a pioneering San Francisco sex educator. A regular advice columnist for Men’s Health, Midori has appeared on HBO and BBC, and has been featured in Vogue, Playboy, Der Spiegel, Cosmo and more. She’s also the author of two of my favorite bestselling books “The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” and “Wild Side Sex”.
This video, directed by Tristan Taormino, features dramatic role playing.
In Midori’s Guide to Sensual Bondage, each woman shares her most intimate desires, tests her own boundaries, and rides the seductive line between pleasure and pain. The couples take charge of bringing their scenarios to life. Watching a Taormino film you get to witness female sexuality at its most extreme: raw, rough, and real.
I studied the DVD long and “hard” and somehow managed to take notes although my eyes were glued to the TV without so much as a blink. I also made side notes on what I was planning to do with my honey. I love being in control and he just as much loves taking commands.
Midori really knows her stuff. A Sex expert and world-class bondage expert after my own heart and Director Tristan has gained so much respect in my eyes as a female director, she has definetly carved a niche in the industry and knows first hand how her actors feel.
Taormino is quickly changing the porn industry with her fresh approach to real women, real orgasms. No outrageous stunts. No degradation. Instead, the focus is on fresh and accessible performers, hot, spontaneous sex, real chemistry and real orgasms for everyone.
Sex expert Midori introduces couples to the world of adventurous sex by sharing her vast knowledge about one of the most intimate activities: sensual bondage. With fun, useful tips and tricks, she’ll show you step-by-step how to tie up your lover to take your sexual experiences to the next level.
You’ll learn about:
• Communicating your desires and fantasies
• Tying someone up properly and safely
• Using scarves, neckties, belts, and everyday items for bondage
• Playing with collars, leashes, blindfolds, wrist and ankle cuffs
• Transforming your bedroom into a bondage playground
• Creating Midori’s signature “vibrator bondage harness”
Delve into the pleasures of sensual bondage as you get specific information and answers from expert and author Midori, then watch as two enthusiastic couples share the different ways you can incorporate this intimate activity into your love making.
Cast: Midori, Adrianna Nicole, Madison Young, Mark Davis, Danny Wylde
Released: 09/2009
Studio: Vivid Entertainment Vivid Ed
Director: Tristan Taormino
Running Time: 98 minutes
Audio/Video Quality: Shot in high definition makes it a clear crisp video.
I didn’t care for the promos at the beginning and quite frankly annoyed me and I quickly fast-forwared. Midori starts the introduction by talking about why people like bondage. She talks about the importance of communication when delving into bondage in a relationship, I personally think this is key in any couples first hand at beginner’s bondage and can make a huge difference in the experience.
She also discusses safety which is pretty important and in my sexpert opinion should go hand in hand with communication prior to the techniques. Knowing how tight or lose your restraints or collar should be is key, and this approach can make a couple’s experience much more satisfying . It is also one reason Midori is a class act (and not to mention makes instructional porn refreshing).
Midori introduces bondage equipment to the couple, and both Adrianna and Mark seem engaged and enjoying each other. Midori shows Mark several bondage techniques first with scarves then with bondage restraints. Adrianna seemed to enjoy being restrained and comfortable with taking direction.
Mark in this scene was the Dominant or as Midori puts it the “top” and Adrianna seemed to enjoy it as the “bottom.” It starts with Mark restraining Adrianna in a “spread eagle” format with ankle and wrist restraints with the use of bungee cords under the mattress, a tip well noted and on my BDSM to do list
Mark slapping, licking and sucking her vagina til she orgasmed was quite the turn on, and I almost forgot I was taking notes.
Mark seems very turned on by pleasing her orally and made for a hotter scene. I think Mark should make a “how to give her oral pleasure” book! I would be the first in line to have him sign my copy. Adrianna seemed to enjoy this, which made the act last a little longer than I would have liked, but nevertheless it was nice to see him focused on what turned her on. He also fingered her, both anally and vaginally, and he fucked her quite hard. She gives him head however, nothing special or worth noting. Adrianna is quite good at playing the submissive role, and her flirtatious eyes and gazes makes the couples interaction seem more real and not acted out. She is good at being the receiver of lots of pleasure.
Madison and Danny waste no time and get right to the action! First, it starts out with Danny as Madison’s Dominant, and he’s out the gate like a pro. Madison seems to love the submissive role with her eyes closed. There is some anal penetration which Madison seems to enjoy then roles are switched where Madison puts a blindfold on Danny and rides him like she’s on a bucking Bronco. This couple had much hotter chemistry, and it seemed more natural. They are a younger couple and very much into one another, which was a nice turn on.
4 out 5 stars and well worth the purchase.
Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage, directed by Tristan Taormino, is hot in my Sexpert opinion. Weather you’re a novice or a beginner this video is beneficial for all. Viewers have the option of watching the scenes with instruction or without (or both, of course). The scenes with instruction feature narration by Midori, on-screen graphics that highlight creative tips and tricks to help guide the viewer in the learning experience.
The scenes without instruction are edited more like traditional sex scenes, except with a focus on the connection between partners, female pleasure and orgasm, and sensuality. As experienced as I am in bondage I learned a few tricks and tips myself, and watching the scenes without instructions the second time around made for a hotter “sexperience” with my honey. I was also impressed by the toy use. This was my favorite features for obvious reasons. The only “buzz kill” in my opinion was the lack of scene options, I would have liked to see a few more sex scenes with hot couples but overall a definite “lust have.”
Reviewing a “How to” video was a nice break from the usual review so thank you Babeland we can’t wait for the next one. Not only educational but well thought out and executed and I look forward to more sex instructional videos from this awesome duo and Vivid Entertainment.
Sensually Yours,
Lexi B.
This product was provided to VRS free of charge by Babeland.com in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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The Rabbit Pearl vibrator is perhaps the most famous vibe today. Virtually every toy shop or online store has it, and it’s design is suited for the advanced sex toy adventurist and beginner alike. Today’s Vibrator review will focus on teaching you 2 ways to use your Rabbit Pearl Vibrator.
Enjoy the ride!
Of course I’m being selfish here. The Rabbit Pearl is an excellent solo-toy for women.
It’s orgasmic design gives the female the potential to orgasm three ways:
The tip of this hot vibe looks for your G-spot as your legs begin to quiver and the waves of pleasure become “body-gasms”!
The pearl beads are slick and gently caress and massage the sensitive vaginal opening to get your juices flowing.
And the Bunny ears…well, we won’t even go there.
Oh yes, we will!
The bunny ears are delicate and hovering over your clitoral area to give you the best of clitoral orgasms.
Put that all together and you’ve got yourself a toy that does everything except the dishes! ha ha
Because it’s multi-functional and multi-orgasm capabilities, it’s a great toy for a woman to explore her body and experience a G-Spot or Vaginal orgasm if you have never experienced these orgasms before. As I mentioned, the clitoral stimulation is top notch, so you’ll also indulge in better clitoral orgasms with a ride like this one!
There’s a reason Lexi and I call this the Rolls Royce of vibrators!
In addition to it’s multi-orgasmic design, the vibe’s settings are easily accessible and can be changed at slightest increase in the slider’s setting.
Because its:
This vibrator is definitely a top pick for vibrator connoisseurs and newbies!
Random Vibrator Review Tip:
Because the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator twirls at the head, manually bending it slightly will cause the head to angle more to hit your G-Spot ladies!
The Rabbit Pearl is also a great vibe to use with your lover. The ease of increasing the setting with the slider makes it easy to play with in a couple setting.
The only slight inconvenience is the chord, but the pleasure is all worth it my dear!
The rabbit ears make clitoral stimulation a treat for your lady, guys. And the pearls will oh so gently massage your woman’s sensitive vaginal opening and have her ready for the real deal!
The Rabbit Pearl will help you tease your woman and having her crave you. Tease her and then please her.
This is the perfect gift for the wifey!
You’ve got a win-win with this vibrator!
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Want to make your woman want YOU more in bed? Want her to eagerly look forward to and initiate your love making sessions? Well a good way to start is by learning how to use a vibrator on her.
You may be thinking “I know how to please my woman she doesn’t need a dildo”, well you’re in fact mistaken. In this two part series the following tips will assist you in your journey on how to use a vibrator on her.
Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm —and vibrators deliver powerful, consistent stimulation like nothing else can. The extra oomph that vibrators give to the clitoris is just what many women need to come—whether alone or with a partner. 80% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Vibrators have helped many pre-orgasmic women reach that longed-for first orgasm, and have brought reliable satisfaction to many others. Vibrators can lightly massage muscles and body parts or directly stimulate her vulva. And why wouldn’t you want to be a part of that experience?
NO! There is nothing like a man’s touch and physical intimacy from a man however, today more and more women are introducing vibes into partner sex. Using a vibrator with your partner means a woman can enjoy all that powerful, sexy, turned-on energy you both are generating, in fact this means more sex for you! In many cases once she gets going she may not need or have interest in the vibrator. Some couples have used a vibrator to give her first ever orgasm, and then have used what they learned from that to give her orgasms in other ways.
Cutting back too soon on stimulation may interrupt her orgasmic potential. Some women get hypersensitive the way most men do – if she is you will need to back off before or as she finishes. Turn the speed down slowly and gradually, rather than breaking contact with her body. Be sure to lie still and hold her after she climaxes. Kiss her gently and enjoy her orgasmic pleasure, you can bask in the moment with her as you will have reached a certain level of excitement.
Who knows you too might enjoy the extra buzz during masturbation delivered by a vibrating penis sleeve or cock ring or a strategically placed tiny vibe. I’ve yet to have met a guy who didn’t like the feeling of a vibrator at the base of his shaft or under his “boys down south”. Have her buzz a Single Bullet or cylindrical vibe on your boys and taint. Introduce the idea of her playing with the vibe once you have pleased her and mastered the art of the “sword”.
If she has never had multiple “O’s”, but wants to try, a vibrator is a great way to learn.
First try laying side by side, many women prefer this as they feel emotionally connected to you. Start by massaging her clitoris and inner labia with a gentle two-finger massage (use a dime-size amount of lubricant). Use the flat of your finger tips. Take three or four fingers, side by side and flat, and position them between her outer labia. Apply slight pressure and stroke her with one hand then place the vibrator in between her labia, over the clitoris then cup your hand over the vibrator. Speed control is very important, make sure you start the speed on slow so that you don’t over stimulate her. Then gradually turn up the speed as she peaks her Orgasm – but be sure not to turn up the speed too quickly or too high. Some women prefer full speed before orgasm however, some women may never want more than the slight buzz of a vibrator like the Juliet. Next push the vibrator, slowly and just slightly into her and hold for several minutes or push in and out gently. You can then move the vibe parallel to her labia or left to right or in a vibrator small circular motions. Listen to her commands and pay close attention to her moans. If her body movements have a rhythm, then you know she likes it.
By mastering the vibrator and learning how to please her first, you’ll find your connection and bond getting stronger and deeper emotionally. So take the time to get to know her body, think selflessly, laugh and celebrate a new beginning with vibrator play.
As with all toys use a good lubricant (lube). Women vary greatly in the amount of natural wetness their bodies produce. Weather her body produces a mass amounts of natural lubrication or dry when she’s aroused, lube can enhance a sexual session. Lube helps with easy penetration and avoid any discomfort if your partner is not wet enough on her own. There are many types of lubes on the market: water-based, flavored, jelly and my favorite (multi-use) silicone lube, Eros-Bodyglide.
P.S. Saliva (spit) is NOT a substitute for lube! In most cases it is a turn off for a woman and we won’t even go into the bacteria in your mouth, not attractive and a definite “buzz kill”.
Feel free to ask questions or let us know how this helped inspire and or intensified your partner play by leaving a comment.
Good Vibrations,
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Many women new to sex toy play often wonder how to use a vibrator. Most of us have grown up with sex being a taboo topic. It often takes some time to be comfortable within your sexuality if this is how you grew up.
For a man, using a vibrator with his woman may never have been an exciting idea. However, if pleasing her gets you excited, then this couple’s guide will get you super excited to use a vibrator with your girl or wife.
Using a vibrator is quite exhilarating when you know how to use one, so today we’re dedicating a quickie blog post to explain the different ways to use a vibrator couple’s style!
Let’s face it ladies and gents. Women love clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s vulva. The easiest way to make a woman orgasm is with adequate clitoral stimulation, and if you don’t feel comfortable going down on your woman, guys, a vibrator like the bullet (and its many variations) can be the perfect bedroom accessory for you.
With these egg or bullet-like vibrators, a woman herself, or her man, can rest the buzzing bullet on the clitoris for fast arousal. You can keep the bullet directly on the clitoris until she climaxes or you can just tease her and get her ready for you! The latter is preferred with couple’s vibrator play. This is because once she get’s her clitoral orgasm, she may just be ready to relax…or not…but the point here is that teasing your woman will have her crave you even more, and that’s what you want after all, right?
Bullets come in many varieties with speed setting, pulsation patterns, cordless and with a cord. The most unobtrusive ones are the ones with out the chord like the I Vibe Pocket Rocket.
Don’t worry guys, not a thick tree stump. The branch vibrator refers to a toy that has both clitoral and vaginal components, hence the name “branch vibrator“. One phallic part goes in the vaginal area and there’s an external clitoral teaser attached to the branch toys. An example of a branch toy would be the all to popular Rabbit Pearl Vibrator.
Branch vibrators have tons of embellishments and features that will work different erogenous zones (the G-Spot, the super sensitive vaginal opening, the clitoris). Using a branch vibe on your woman to get her juices flowing will make sex all the better because using a toy is like foreplay on steroids.
When using a branch toy you need more than just a good lubricant, sex toy cleaner, and the toy.
Men take your time. Kiss on her neck or her favorite hot spots. Tease her with your tongue. Go down on her without directly flicking your tongue on her clitoris. Lightly do so and wet her sexual appetite.
Start by turning on the clitoral ticklers on your branch toy of choice and lightly allow the ticklers to hover over her clitoris. Is she screaming for more? Take your time and remove the ticklers. Play with the settings (high, low, pulsation patters if applicable). When you see her going ballistic, feel her lips and see if she is wet enough for you to insert the penis/phallic shaped part of your branch toy. Tease her for a few minutes until she is ready to craving to make love to you.
Now, don’t worry gents if you think your wife or girlfriend will like the vibe more than your penis. A vibe is just a foreplay tool if used together. If you’re a blogger, really its just like an add on or WordPress widget to that enhances the visitor (your wife’s) experience. Nothing can replace sex with a man. Take it from me, an 7 year sex toy party plan gal. Ain’t nothin’ like the real thing.
Now ladies when he is out of town, however, you have a “tie me over” until he gets home! When he gets home and finds you playing with your vibe, you will arouse him so quick that you’ll get it really good!
There are also special couple’s toys that give you both the time of your lives. These tend to be for the more experienced vibrator users. Many of these are really powerful and will have you both screaming like you’ve never screamed before. These couples toys are built to slide on the man’s penis (like a magic/cock ring) and have ticklers that tickle the clitoris and the boys down south (a.ka. the balls). An example is the Twin Rabbit Ear Couple’s Toy.
As with all toys use a good lubricant (lube). It will help with easy penetration and avoid any discomfort if your girl is not wet enough on her own.
What questions do you have about using a vibrator with your lover?
Once you experiment and apply these tips you’ll forget you even asked how to use a vibrator in the first place!
Angelise
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