I Found My G-spot

There is no single “right” technique to find the G-spot. The size and sensitivity varies quite a bit. And some women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play? Arm yourself these 5 Hot G-spot Tips: Female and the right touch, you too can have mind blowing, out of body, crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” G-spot “O’s!”

1) Let your fingers do the walking:

Touching the G-spot in the same way you touch the clitoris may be a bit disappointing, although the clitoris is jam packed with millions of pleasure zones, the G-spot is not. However, the good news is the G-spot does respond in a big way to different types of stimulation: pressure. Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly now stroke it firmly and directly with your fingers. Depending on the length of your fingers, you may not be able to reach it. Come back to the pubic bone with your fingers and “hook” your finger to the back of it, and locate a little hollow just before the smooth area begins. Your fingers should be pointing up toward your belly at this point, not back towards the cervix.

2) Firm Strokes:

Once you’ve hit the Grafenberg spot you’ll feel a zap or jolt of electricity! Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the urethral sponge is behind it, so you’ll need to press firmly. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or ridgy; much different from the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a “come hither” motion). If you have trouble hitting it yourself, try foreplay with your partner first. The G-spot will swell from your lovers stimulation and excitement!

3) Ejaculate!:

Ahhhh the surprise of a liquid orgasm! In the past, there have been many speculations about a woman’s capacity to ejaculate. Some women can actually have pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won’t worry about peeing. You will feel a warm, deep, sensual feeling that is much different from any other sensation. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be a Niagra Falls experience. There are women who have the gift of “projectile ejaculation” and can squirt clear across the room, talk about target practice! Some women ejaculate on a regular, some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While not every woman ejaculates, is not uncommon, and it is considered a normal aspect of female sexual response.

4) Retry:

Last but not least, retry. Should you experience discomfort let him know! It’s possible he’s on the “penetration station train” or hitting from the wrong angle. Tell him to approach lightly for the first few times. Still experiencing discomfort? Have him withdraw for a few minutes and start over – this often helps. It’s all about communicating with your lover, how will he know if you don’t tell him?!

5) Turn yourself on:

Who say you need a partner to pleasure your G-spot? Why not treat yourself to a G-spot toy! G-spot toys come in many different shapes, sizes, colors, textures, styles and even waterproof. Try putting on your favorite sexy movie and indulge in hot fantasies with your new B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfirend) . Splurge, tell yourself you deserve it! Try the Pure Wand; designed for women to reach their own G-spot stimulation.

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Are you at work dreading the last few hours and watching the clock thinking “TGIF I can’t wait to get outta here!” Or maybe you’re thinking “TGIF I want to go home and get down with the hair pulling and spanking with my hunny boo for a naughty night!” Since Friday’s seem to drag on when you’re at work and everyone can’t wait to get the weekend started, I thought it would be fitting to kick off “Frisky Friday”. And what better way than with an “Everything you always wanted to know about G-spot stimulation but were afraid to “ask” guide. You don’t want to miss this one; awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” techniques!

1) G-spot Female Facts:

WHAT IS IT? I must admit like many, I was a skeptic, but after 7 years of educating women on all aspects of G-spot stimulation and practicing what I preached, I have now seen the light. The Grafenberg spot is real and is a great pleasure for some women; for others, it might be a new unexplored pleasure spot. So if you are a newcomer to G-spot stimulation, don’t be afraid. Arm yourself with these G-spot facts first and you will open up a whole body experience. For those G-spot addicts, you may just find a new G-spot vibrator or as I like to affectionately refer to it as your B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)! Sure “Fire Starter” way to get your rocks off and kick it up a notch in the bedroom.

Every woman on the face of this Earth is blessed with a G-spot – like the clitoris, the vagina and the anus, is a part of every woman’s constellation of sex organs. And if you’ve always had a ‘special spot’ in your vagina that you’ve tried to hit during intercourse, you’ll be able to pinpoint it with more accuracy. As with so many things, knowing what you’re doing gives you better control. It was named after the sex researcher Ernst Grafenberg. who first wrote about its erotic potential in 1982. Put aside the controversy about clitoral versus vaginal, research on the Grafenberg Spot indicate that women are more capable of a whole set on continuous sexual responses which involve both clitoral and vaginal stimulation alone or what I call a “blended orgasm”.

Being a sexpert you would think I have THE G-spot roadmap however, it took me a while to find my Grafenberg Spot. So be patient with your body, take the time to get to know your vagina, and note these tips (and see diagram):

2) Where is the G Spot?

You can locate the G-spot by using your fingers to explore the vaginal walls. You’ve got the magic touch – your fingertips. It’s a lot easier to locate than you think. There’s no need to deep-sea dive — this tissue is just inside the vaginal opening, about an inch and a half in. When aroused, that’s the area that will swell to somewhere between pistachio and walnut size, and, for many people, becomes a place of intense sexual pleasure. The G-spot, also called the urethral sponge, is a small, rigid, oval shaped area of soft tissue, I call my “silky pillow”. Located 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline. It wraps around the urethra and swells with fluid during sexual arousal. As the spongy tissue fills with fluid, the swelling pushes into the vagina, if you put your hand on your belly you can actually feel it. When women ejaculate, it’s the clear, watery fluid that has collected in this tissue that leaves a wet mark on the sheets. Some ladies think they’ve actually wet the bed during sex, and are so embarrassed thus reluctant to try again for fear they will flood the bedroom! No need to call the plumber ladies; again just arm yourself with these awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” techniques in this series.

3) G Spot Orgasms

If you have orgasms, you’ve probably noticed different kinds. Sometimes they feel like a roar of sexual energy, sometimes like a ripple of satisfaction. G-spot orgasms are like another instrument in the big band of sexual response. There’s no one perfect G-spot orgasm technique. Women describe their G-spot orgasms as deep, whole-body, leg quivering experiences. They can last longer and can be made up of more and longer contractions than other types of orgasm. Many women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Sometimes women discover this by surprise, when they happen to devote a little more time to sex. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play?

For more information, check out Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot by Kathy Wilkes. Great information your mama never knew is now at your fingertips. Keep it as a bedside table reference and you will master the art of G-spot stimulation in no time.

Helping you hit the spot,

Lexi B.

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