7 Hot Tips for Sex in the Bedroom
If you’re finding yourself with a case of bedroom boredom it’s time to implement the following 7 tips for sex in the bedroom.
One of the greatest physical joys is the feeling of euphoria while enjoying your lovers touch, company and his or her motions. But if you’re no longer excited about sex, something’s completely off the mark. Below are 7 surefire tips for hotter sex with your lover.
1) Women: Love Yourself
Now you’re probably expecting me to tell you to masturbate, but what I’m really saying is enjoy your curves. No one is perfect, and we live in this world of “plastic perfection” that is surreal. God made you unique and beautiful. Don’t worry about the little cellulite or the few extra pounds you’ve put on. When you’re not confident with who you are (not only just how you look), it really shows in the bedroom. When you lack that confidence, you don’t enjoy yourself because you’re worrying about things like:
“Does he see my stretch marks? or “Does he notice my butt got fatter/skinnier?”
Guys don’t even see or care about stretch marks when you’re having sex. They are enjoying you, so enjoy him too! Guys, am I right or right? Jump in the conversation here.
2) Women: Love Yourself Again
Okay, this time I DO mean please yourself. Masturbation is natural and healthy. Getting to know your body will help you communicate your likes and dislikes to your lover.
Use your fingers or a vibrator to explore your curves while he’s not around in the privacy of your bedroom. Experiment with soft, hard, and direct touch. The more you know what you like the more empowered and sexier you will feel.
Play with yourself when he IS around too. Masturbating in front of him will make him go berserk. He’ll see that you’re confident in your skin, and that you’re uninhibited. That in and of itself will make him want you even more. When you do implement this one hot sex tip, you’ll find that night might just be the best sex you’ve ever had.
3) Clear Your Mind Before Sex
Forget about the office, politics, family drama. If you take stress into the bedroom, it becomes the ultimate recipe for crappy sex. When your mind is not there your body can’t accept the pleasure its receiving. Clear you mind.
- Unwind
- Drink a glass of wine.
- Take a bubble bath.
- Groom and perfume yourself.
- Be in the moment – Focus on the touching, rocking, swaying, and rythym.
4) Be Dressed for Hot Sex – Nix the Granny Panties and Put on a Hot Teddy
Not only will you drive him, or her, wild, but when you have a sexy teddy on you’re more confident. Although they do want to see you in the flesh, lace, pearls, and leather embellish your curves and drive him insane. Dress the part, look the part, feel the part. 
5) Focus on Enjoying Each Other Not the Orgasm
I must admit, I used to the one to be focused on getting mine and climaxing. I wanted to rush through sex and climax. That’s totally the wrong thing to do if you want to impress your lover. This will only show that you’re only interested in yourself. Hot sex is about pleasing each other. Focus on each unique touch, event, position, motion. Just enjoy yourself and the orgasm will come.
6) Be Generous with the Foreplay
This is an area where guys tend to breeze through. Guys, don’t be cheap here. Women need significantly more physical touch than men. Go down on your woman (perform cunnilingus) and women, go down on your men (perform fellatio). Don’t make each other climax with oral sex, unless you decide to. Be a tease. Make your lover crave that extra second of touch. You will find the sex to be steamier and more pleasurable with the right mix of foreplay.
Foreplay can also entail kissing areas you’ve never kissed before. Explore each others’ bodies. See if you discover a new erogenous zone that will make her go wild.
7) Try A New Sex Position
Missionary just sucks. Buy a sex position card game or book. Be adventurous and be vocal about what you do and do not like. Ladies, if you don’t tell him it doesn’t feel good he’ll keep thinking that it does. communication is key to a satisfying sex life. Try positions that are comfortable for you and your lover. While guys might like your legs to be over his shoulder’s he has to realize that maybe you’re not all that flexible. If you are comfortable with something like that, go for it. This position rocks.
Bonus Tip for Hot Sex
Experiment.
Ultimately, you and your lover are unique, different, and might like somethings more than others, but you will never know until you experiment!
What other hot tips for sex do you recommend?
Speak your mind, y’all.
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