There is no single “right” technique to find the G-spot. The size and sensitivity varies quite a bit. And some women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play? Arm yourself these 5 Hot G-spot Tips: Female and the right touch, you too can have mind blowing, out of body, crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” G-spot “O’s!”
Touching the G-spot in the same way you touch the clitoris may be a bit disappointing, although the clitoris is jam packed with millions of pleasure zones, the G-spot is not. However, the good news is the G-spot does respond in a big way to different types of stimulation: pressure. Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly now stroke it firmly and directly with your fingers. Depending on the length of your fingers, you may not be able to reach it. Come back to the pubic bone with your fingers and “hook†your finger to the back of it, and locate a little hollow just before the smooth area begins. Your fingers should be pointing up toward your belly at this point, not back towards the cervix.
Once you’ve hit the Grafenberg spot you’ll feel a zap or jolt of electricity! Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the urethral sponge is behind it, so you’ll need to press firmly. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or ridgy; much different from the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a “come hither” motion). If you have trouble hitting it yourself, try foreplay with your partner first. The G-spot will swell from your lovers stimulation and excitement!
Ahhhh the surprise of a liquid orgasm! In the past, there have been many speculations about a woman’s capacity to ejaculate. Some women can actually have pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won’t worry about peeing. You will feel a warm, deep, sensual feeling that is much different from any other sensation. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be a Niagra Falls experience. There are women who have the gift of “projectile ejaculation†and can squirt clear across the room, talk about target practice! Some women ejaculate on a regular, some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While not every woman ejaculates, is not uncommon, and it is considered a normal aspect of female sexual response.
Last but not least, retry. Should you experience discomfort let him know! It’s possible he’s on the “penetration station train†or hitting from the wrong angle. Tell him to approach lightly for the first few times. Still experiencing discomfort? Have him withdraw for a few minutes and start over – this often helps. It’s all about communicating with your lover, how will he know if you don’t tell him?!
Who say you need a partner to pleasure your G-spot? Why not treat yourself to a G-spot toy! G-spot toys come in many different shapes, sizes, colors, textures, styles and even waterproof. Try putting on your favorite sexy movie and indulge in hot fantasies with your new B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfirend) . Splurge, tell yourself you deserve it! Try the Pure Wand; designed for women to reach their own G-spot stimulation.
Helping you hit the spot,
Lexi B.
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And to think we had been told there’s no such thing as the g-spot! I know I’m not imagining it.