5 Hot G-spot Tips: Female

I Found My G-spot

There is no single “right” technique to find the G-spot. The size and sensitivity varies quite a bit. And some women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play? Arm yourself these 5 Hot G-spot Tips: Female and the right touch, you too can have mind blowing, out of body, crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” G-spot “O’s!”

1) Let your fingers do the walking:

Touching the G-spot in the same way you touch the clitoris may be a bit disappointing, although the clitoris is jam packed with millions of pleasure zones, the G-spot is not. However, the good news is the G-spot does respond in a big way to different types of stimulation: pressure. Now insert your finger into your vagina and curve your finger up towards your belly now stroke it firmly and directly with your fingers. Depending on the length of your fingers, you may not be able to reach it. Come back to the pubic bone with your fingers and “hook” your finger to the back of it, and locate a little hollow just before the smooth area begins. Your fingers should be pointing up toward your belly at this point, not back towards the cervix.

2) Firm Strokes:

Once you’ve hit the Grafenberg spot you’ll feel a zap or jolt of electricity! Remember, you aren’t feeling for something on the vaginal wall, the urethral sponge is behind it, so you’ll need to press firmly. The texture of the G-spot feels somewhat bumpy or ridgy; much different from the smooth walls of the vagina. Press firmly and stroke your fingers towards your palm (move them in a “come hither” motion). If you have trouble hitting it yourself, try foreplay with your partner first. The G-spot will swell from your lovers stimulation and excitement!

3) Ejaculate!:

Ahhhh the surprise of a liquid orgasm! In the past, there have been many speculations about a woman’s capacity to ejaculate. Some women can actually have pressure on the G-Spot or the contractions of orgasm can cause ejaculation from the urethral sponge through the urethra. Empty your bladder before sex, so you won’t worry about peeing. You will feel a warm, deep, sensual feeling that is much different from any other sensation. Ejaculate quantity will probably be less than a teaspoon or two, but sometimes it can be a Niagra Falls experience. There are women who have the gift of “projectile ejaculation” and can squirt clear across the room, talk about target practice! Some women ejaculate on a regular, some women ejaculate after the penis, dildo or fingers are removed. While not every woman ejaculates, is not uncommon, and it is considered a normal aspect of female sexual response.

4) Retry:

Last but not least, retry. Should you experience discomfort let him know! It’s possible he’s on the “penetration station train” or hitting from the wrong angle. Tell him to approach lightly for the first few times. Still experiencing discomfort? Have him withdraw for a few minutes and start over – this often helps. It’s all about communicating with your lover, how will he know if you don’t tell him?!

5) Turn yourself on:

Who say you need a partner to pleasure your G-spot? Why not treat yourself to a G-spot toy! G-spot toys come in many different shapes, sizes, colors, textures, styles and even waterproof. Try putting on your favorite sexy movie and indulge in hot fantasies with your new B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfirend) . Splurge, tell yourself you deserve it! Try the Pure Wand; designed for women to reach their own G-spot stimulation.

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How to Find the G-spot: Female

Are you at work dreading the last few hours and watching the clock thinking “TGIF I can’t wait to get outta here!” Or maybe you’re thinking “TGIF I want to go home and get down with the hair pulling and spanking with my hunny boo for a naughty night!” Since Friday’s seem to drag on when you’re at work and everyone can’t wait to get the weekend started, I thought it would be fitting to kick off “Frisky Friday”. And what better way than with an “Everything you always wanted to know about G-spot stimulation but were afraid to “ask” guide. You don’t want to miss this one; awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” techniques!

1) G-spot Female Facts:

WHAT IS IT? I must admit like many, I was a skeptic, but after 7 years of educating women on all aspects of G-spot stimulation and practicing what I preached, I have now seen the light. The Grafenberg spot is real and is a great pleasure for some women; for others, it might be a new unexplored pleasure spot. So if you are a newcomer to G-spot stimulation, don’t be afraid. Arm yourself with these G-spot facts first and you will open up a whole body experience. For those G-spot addicts, you may just find a new G-spot vibrator or as I like to affectionately refer to it as your B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)! Sure “Fire Starter” way to get your rocks off and kick it up a notch in the bedroom.

Every woman on the face of this Earth is blessed with a G-spot – like the clitoris, the vagina and the anus, is a part of every woman’s constellation of sex organs. And if you’ve always had a ‘special spot’ in your vagina that you’ve tried to hit during intercourse, you’ll be able to pinpoint it with more accuracy. As with so many things, knowing what you’re doing gives you better control. It was named after the sex researcher Ernst Grafenberg. who first wrote about its erotic potential in 1982. Put aside the controversy about clitoral versus vaginal, research on the Grafenberg Spot indicate that women are more capable of a whole set on continuous sexual responses which involve both clitoral and vaginal stimulation alone or what I call a “blended orgasm”.

Being a sexpert you would think I have THE G-spot roadmap however, it took me a while to find my Grafenberg Spot. So be patient with your body, take the time to get to know your vagina, and note these tips (and see diagram):

2) Where is the G Spot?

You can locate the G-spot by using your fingers to explore the vaginal walls. You’ve got the magic touch – your fingertips. It’s a lot easier to locate than you think. There’s no need to deep-sea dive — this tissue is just inside the vaginal opening, about an inch and a half in. When aroused, that’s the area that will swell to somewhere between pistachio and walnut size, and, for many people, becomes a place of intense sexual pleasure. The G-spot, also called the urethral sponge, is a small, rigid, oval shaped area of soft tissue, I call my “silky pillow”. Located 2-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline. It wraps around the urethra and swells with fluid during sexual arousal. As the spongy tissue fills with fluid, the swelling pushes into the vagina, if you put your hand on your belly you can actually feel it. When women ejaculate, it’s the clear, watery fluid that has collected in this tissue that leaves a wet mark on the sheets. Some ladies think they’ve actually wet the bed during sex, and are so embarrassed thus reluctant to try again for fear they will flood the bedroom! No need to call the plumber ladies; again just arm yourself with these awesome facts, positions, toys and crazy-Hot “Fire Starter” techniques in this series.

3) G Spot Orgasms

If you have orgasms, you’ve probably noticed different kinds. Sometimes they feel like a roar of sexual energy, sometimes like a ripple of satisfaction. G-spot orgasms are like another instrument in the big band of sexual response. There’s no one perfect G-spot orgasm technique. Women describe their G-spot orgasms as deep, whole-body, leg quivering experiences. They can last longer and can be made up of more and longer contractions than other types of orgasm. Many women say their G-spot orgasms come after a number of little orgasms, when they are as turned on as they can get. Sometimes women discover this by surprise, when they happen to devote a little more time to sex. Some say G-spot orgasms are the most powerful they’ve ever had, and experience them as rolling waves of total sexual release. With stories like these to inspire, who wouldn’t want to experiment with G-spot play?

For more information, check out Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot by Kathy Wilkes. Great information your mama never knew is now at your fingertips. Keep it as a bedside table reference and you will master the art of G-spot stimulation in no time.

Helping you hit the spot,

Lexi B.

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How to Use a Vibrator: A Couple’s Guide to Vibrator Play

Many women new to sex toy play often wonder how to use a vibrator. Most of us have grown up with sex being a taboo topic. It often takes some time to be comfortable within your sexuality if this is how you grew up.

For a man, using a vibrator with his woman may never have been an exciting idea. However, if pleasing her gets you excited, then this couple’s guide will get you super excited to use a vibrator with your girl or wife.

Using a vibrator is quite exhilarating when you know how to use one, so today we’re dedicating a quickie blog post to explain the different ways to use a vibrator couple’s style!

Use a Vibrator to Enhance Foreplay and Clitoral Stimulation (Clitoral Vibrators)

Let’s face it ladies and gents. Women love clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman’s vulva. The easiest way to make a woman orgasm is with adequate clitoral stimulation, and if you don’t feel comfortable going down on your woman, guys, a vibrator like the bullet (and its many variations) can be the perfect bedroom accessory for you.

With these egg or bullet-like vibrators, a woman herself, or her man, can rest the buzzing bullet on the clitoris for fast arousal. You can keep the bullet directly on the clitoris until she climaxes or you can just tease her and get her ready for you! The latter is preferred with couple’s vibrator play. This is because once she get’s her clitoral orgasm, she may just be ready to relax…or not…but the point here is that teasing your woman will have her crave you even more, and that’s what you want after all, right?

Bullets come in many varieties with speed setting, pulsation patterns, cordless and with a cord. The most unobtrusive ones are the ones with out the chord like the I Vibe Pocket Rocket.

Use a Branch Vibrator Toy to Warm Her Up or When He’s Out of Town

Don’t worry guys, not a thick tree stump. The branch vibrator refers to a toy that has both clitoral and vaginal components, hence the name “branch vibrator“. One phallic part goes in the vaginal area and there’s an external clitoral teaser attached to the branch toys. An example of a branch toy would be the all to popular Rabbit Pearl Vibrator.

Branch vibrators have tons of embellishments and features that will work different erogenous zones (the G-Spot, the super sensitive vaginal opening, the clitoris). Using a branch vibe on your woman to get her juices flowing will make sex all the better because using a toy is like foreplay on steroids.

When using a branch toy you need more than just a good lubricant, sex toy cleaner, and the toy.

Men take your time. Kiss on her neck or her favorite hot spots. Tease her with your tongue. Go down on her without directly flicking your tongue on her clitoris. Lightly do so and wet her sexual appetite.

Start by turning on the clitoral ticklers on your branch toy of choice and lightly allow the ticklers to hover over her clitoris. Is she screaming for more? Take your time and remove the ticklers. Play with the settings (high, low, pulsation patters if applicable). When you see her going ballistic, feel her lips and see if she is wet enough for you to insert the penis/phallic shaped part of your branch toy. Tease her for a few minutes until she is ready to craving to make love to you.

Now, don’t worry gents if you think your wife or girlfriend will like the vibe more than your penis. A vibe is just a foreplay tool if used together. If you’re a blogger, really its just like an add on or WordPress widget to that enhances the visitor (your wife’s) experience. Nothing can replace sex with a man. Take it from me, an 7 year sex toy party plan gal. Ain’t nothin’ like the real thing.

Now ladies when he is out of town, however, you have a “tie me over” until he gets home! When he gets home and finds you playing with your vibe, you will arouse him so quick that you’ll get it really good!

How to Use a Couple’s Vibrator

There are also special couple’s toys that give you both the time of your lives. These tend to be for the more experienced vibrator users. Many of these are really powerful and will have you both screaming like you’ve never screamed before. These couples toys are built to slide on the man’s penis (like a magic/cock ring) and have ticklers that tickle the clitoris and the boys down south (a.ka. the balls). An example is the Twin Rabbit Ear Couple’s Toy.

As with all toys use a good lubricant (lube). It will help with easy penetration and avoid any discomfort if your girl is not wet enough on her own.

What questions do you have about using a vibrator with your lover?

Once you experiment and apply these tips you’ll forget you even asked how to use a vibrator in the first place!

Angelise

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5 Hot Tips for Sex to Drive your Lover Crazy

Has your love life lost its spark? Are you stuck in a rut? And when it does happen, it often waits for weekends, holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and for some of you – even leap years!? Here are 5 more HOT Tips for Sex sure to drive your lover crazy.

Don’t worry, what’s happening to you is perfectly normal and happens to the best of us. Everyone hits a wall every now and then because routines are easy and comforting especially when couples stay together for months, years or decades.

So HOT, you may spark a flame in the bedroom!

1) Penis Pleasing (PP):

Blowjob, oral deed, Bj’s, giving head, going down, fellatio. Whatever you call it, men will do anything to get it. We all wish it came with instructions the first time you tried it. Did you know men dream about the female mouth more than the Vagina. They are both wet, warm and tight however, the mouth has a tongue that licks. You don’t even have to taste or swallow it (try it you might just like it). It’s all about technique, something we tend to ignore and often rush to get the dirty job done. Make eye contact, look at him seductively every now and then. If your mouth get’s dry, sip water or drizzle flavored lube, don’t rush make it a sexy production. Take his penis in and out of your mouth a few times, look at it and smile. Talk to him, tell him how good it feels and you get off doing this for him. Stroke with your hands when you start to get “lock jaw” and try using a penis gel, get’s him off in “60 seconds or less” and helps eliminate the gag reflex.

Take your time and what better way to Kick off the 4th of July than with a good “hum job,” in which you put your lips around his testicles and hum “The Star Spangle Banner.”

2) Explore Playthings:

Experiment with pillows, restraints, blindfolds, whips, swings, slings and discover that power exchange can be very empowering! Discover what turns you on.

There is something out there for everyone, from the nervous novice to the polished pro. Body positioners like wedge pillows are a favorite, designed to contour your aroused bodies, these wedges, angle you for new erotic sex positions and elevations. Swing sets aren’t for the playground anymore. Simply send him to the hardware store for a stud finder and screw the swing into a ceiling beam or sturdy door frame, some of my clients have set up their “swing set” in a walk in closet or garage. Enjoy gravity-defying fun with a swing which can enhance sexual arousal, Kama Sutra, Tantric Sex, awesome G-Spot stimulation just to name a few.

Tie him to the bedpost with cozy restraints, nothing like showing up to work the next morning with red wrist and let everyone know your business. Take a whip with a tickler on one end, blindfold him then tickle his body then whip him. Talk dirty, get flirty, relax and role play a little. Try this hot sex tip and you both might find this to be the best night you’ve had in ages.

3) Get Off With Water Play:

Squeaky-clean fun and one of the most popular ways women learn to achieve their first orgasm is in the tub. What better place, to relax and release. Place your hips under warm water for clitoral stimulation, aim a jet of warm water from a handheld showerhead to tantalize your clitoris. Make a big splash with a Waterproof toy. A vibrator in the shower gives you reason to sing! The shower can provide an oasis of privacy especially if you have children it’s a discreet way to explore. If you’re a first timer experiment with one of the following waterproof toys: round vibrating sponge ball, bullets, G-Spot toy, massager, even a rubber duckie waterproof toy just to name a few!

Adds new meaning to rub a dub, dub!

One of the best reasons to love waterproof toys is the simplest: they’re easy to clean. If you hate high-maintenance toys and materials, a waterproof toy is perfect for you.

4. Get a little dirty:

If you knew there was a creative way to make sex extra stimulating, you would try it, right? Well, start thinking with your palate. Incorporating food into your sexual repertoire intensifies the experience and heightens the senses of smell and taste. There’s nothing more sensual than feeding your lover chocolate covered strawberries.

• Email or text him with a picture of a dessert with the message “Dessert on me, 9 p.m.”
• Dribble chocolate or butterscotch toppings on your lips, and give him a sweet kiss that’ll make him want to eat you up. So delish!
• Set up a picnic in the bedroom with yummy finger foods like, berries, grapes and olives. Take turns blindfolding and hand-feeding each other.
• For instant chills, have him trail a frozen Popsicle around your nipples nipples and belly and slide it along your inner thighs, then lick all over.

5. Location, Location, Location:

Getting tired of hearing the mattress springs…boing, boing, boing! Be bold, be daring, be mischievous. Think beyond the bedroom, start with home but get creative. Think of places you’ve never explored, the laundry room, the staircase, countertop, closet, deck or balcony and get ready for hotter sex. Men find it HOT when you’re comfy being naughty, so ladies let him see your wild side!

Sex in the great outdoors can be adventurous and erotic. “Alfresco sex” is neither for everyone nor every day. Choosing the right time and place is key. Erotic picnic, rooftop, sex on the beach, golf course, park and playground can be wild especially if you bring a multi-tasking waterproof flashlight/keychain/vibrator all in one, great for outdoor adventures. If you love backpacking, camping, rafting, or kayaking, there’s no reason to leave your B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend) at home.

Bonus Tip for Hot Sex:

If you have the new app iphone, with over 100 vibrations, you’ll have lots of new adventures. Talk about “taking a trip on the wild side!”

Do you have a few techniques or HOT Tips for Sex of your own you would like to share?

Good Vibrations,

Lexi B.

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