7 Hot Tips for Sex in the Bedroom

If you’re finding yourself with a case of bedroom boredom it’s time to implement the following 7 tips for sex in the bedroom.

One of the greatest physical joys is the feeling of euphoria while enjoying your lovers touch, company and his or her motions. But if you’re no longer excited about sex, something’s completely off the mark. Below are 7 surefire tips for hotter sex with your lover.

1) Women: Love Yourself

Now you’re probably expecting me to tell you to masturbate, but what I’m really saying is enjoy your curves. No one is perfect, and we live in this world of “plastic perfection” that is surreal. God made you unique and beautiful. Don’t worry about the little cellulite or the few extra pounds you’ve put on. When you’re not confident with who you are (not only just how you look), it really shows in the bedroom. When you lack that confidence, you don’t enjoy yourself because you’re worrying about things like:

“Does he see my stretch marks? or “Does he notice my butt got fatter/skinnier?”

Guys don’t even see or care about stretch marks when you’re having sex. They are enjoying you, so enjoy him too! Guys, am I right or right? Jump in the conversation here.

2) Women: Love Yourself Again

Okay, this time I DO mean please yourself. Masturbation is natural and healthy. Getting to know your body will help you communicate your likes and dislikes to your lover.

Use your fingers or a vibrator to explore your curves while he’s not around in the privacy of your bedroom. Experiment with soft, hard, and direct touch. The more you know what you like the more empowered and sexier you will feel.

Play with yourself when he IS around too. Masturbating in front of him will make him go berserk. He’ll see that you’re confident in your skin, and that you’re uninhibited. That in and of itself will make him want you even more. When you do implement this one hot sex tip, you’ll find that night might just be the best sex you’ve ever had.

3) Clear Your Mind Before Sex

Forget about the office, politics, family drama. If you take stress into the bedroom, it becomes the ultimate recipe for crappy sex. When your mind is not there your body can’t accept the pleasure its receiving. Clear you mind.

• Unwind
• Drink a glass of wine.
• Take a bubble bath.
• Groom and perfume yourself.
• Be in the moment – Focus on the touching, rocking, swaying, and rythym.

4) Be Dressed for Hot Sex – Nix the Granny Panties and Put on a Hot Teddy

Not only will you drive him, or her, wild, but when you have a sexy teddy on you’re more confident. Although they do want to see you in the flesh, lace, pearls, and leather embellish your curves and drive him insane. Dress the part, look the part, feel the part.

5) Focus on Enjoying Each Other Not the Orgasm

I must admit, I used to the one to be focused on getting mine and climaxing. I wanted to rush through sex and climax. That’s totally the wrong thing to do if you want to impress your lover. This will only show that you’re only interested in yourself. Hot sex is about pleasing each other. Focus on each unique touch, event, position, motion. Just enjoy yourself and the orgasm will come.

6) Be Generous with the Foreplay

This is an area where guys tend to breeze through. Guys, don’t be cheap here. Women need significantly more physical touch than men. Go down on your woman (perform cunnilingus) and women, go down on your men (perform fellatio). Don’t make each other climax with oral sex, unless you decide to. Be a tease. Make your lover crave that extra second of touch. You will find the sex to be steamier and more pleasurable with the right mix of foreplay.

Foreplay can also entail kissing areas you’ve never kissed before. Explore each others’ bodies. See if you discover a new erogenous zone that will make her go wild.

7) Try A New Sex Position

Missionary just sucks. Buy a sex position card game or book. Be adventurous and be vocal about what you do and do not like. Ladies, if you don’t tell him it doesn’t feel good he’ll keep thinking that it does. communication is key to a satisfying sex life. Try positions that are comfortable for you and your lover. While guys might like your legs to be over his shoulder’s he has to realize that maybe you’re not all that flexible. If you are comfortable with something like that, go for it. This position rocks.

Bonus Tip for Hot Sex

Experiment.

Ultimately, you and your lover are unique, different, and might like somethings more than others, but you will never know until you experiment!

What other hot tips for sex do you recommend?

Speak your mind, y’all.

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How to Choose the Best Vibrators Part 2

Angelise recently wrote shared her thoughts on how to choose the best vibrator for yourself. We agree that the awesome array of vibrator styles, sizes and textures can be exciting (and at the same time a bit overwhelming)!

The following tips will assist you in your journey to find the best vibrators, help minimize the sex toy information overload and put a twinkle in your eye.

What About Vibrator Strength?

If you’ve never used a vibrator before be prepare to experiment before you find the right strength.

If you tend to firmly rub your clitoris while masturbating rather than a lightly tap it, you’re more likely to appreciate a stronger and faster vibration sex toy.

Ideally, you should pick a toy with variable speed controls and start off with the slowest setting until you discover exactly what amount of vibration gets your motor going. After some tweaking, you’ll be ready to ride away in the sunset with your new toy, or as I like to affectionately refer to it as your B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)!

How Much do you Want to Spend on your Vibrator?

Depending on your budget you may want to try a few of the least expensive vibrators and test them out first. However, if you’ve done your homework, Talk-Sex with Sue Johansen’s Viewer’s Choice Toy of the year, the We-Vibe just might float your boat. This will especially be so if money is no object and you’re looking for simultaneous G-Spot & Clitoral “blended orgasms”. This one will have you screaming out your own name!

Does the Size of Your Vibrator Matter?

Is bigger always better? The truth is sometimes girth matters and sometimes it doesn’t. I truly believe it depends on your personal taste. And sometimes variety can be the spice of life. Some days you may want to drive your Honda Accord and other days your Hummer! It’s the same with vibrator toys!

If you’re a woman on the go and you’d like something discreet. There are discreet toys you can hide in your purse and that are disguised like a lipstick (lipstick vibe). These make great choices for awesome on-the-go Orgasms or to stash away in your suitcase for travel-friendly vacationing. Waterproof toys are great for vacationing by the way.

If you prefer full penetration, consider the girth of the toy over other features.

Worried you may pick a girth that’s too big? Then start off small and work your way up until you are most comfortable and what best fits your body.

What about the Color, Texture, and Feel or your Vibrator?

So you’ve done your research and have narrowed it down to a few contenders. The last thing to possibly consider is the look, texture and color.

• Do you prefer hypoallergenic silicone over jelly?
• Luxury over a sporty model? Do you want a carrying case with your toy?
• Prefer Pretty in Pink?

These are all personal choices but in the end you should pick the vibrator that you are attracted to and best fits your style and personality. Making a good personal choice can make all the difference in the world and how often you take it for a spin.

Remember it takes time to get know your body, your desires and to start embracing them. Be patient, do your research and release your inhibitions!

Here’s to choosing the best vibrators!

Good Vibrations,

Lexi

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How to Find the Best Vibrator and Know It’s Perfect for You

So how do you find the best vibrator for you?

If you scour the web, I’m sure you’ll find vibrator review sites that will promise you that such and such vibrator is the absolute best vibrator to have. Every blog post will tell you this “Vibrator A” is the best. You won’t find that here.

Finding the perfect vibrator will take you knowing several things about yourself and your sensual intentions.

How to Find the Best Vibrator – One That’s Perfect for You

1) What type of vaginal stimulation do you prefer?

Are you a clitoral orgasm fiend as most women are. Do you enjoy the pleasure of direct G spot stimulation?

What gets you going?

Do you even know?

Those are the types of questions you must ask yourself in that quest to find the best vibrator.

2) How do you intend to use your vibrator?

Do you want to use a vibrator at home? In the tub? With a partner?

If you are looking for something to use in the comfort of your bedroom or bathroom you may want to think about things like:

How quiet the vibrator is.

Is the vibrator just for external/clitoral stimulation or is it a branch vibrator (giving both clitoral and vaginal stimulation).

3) Are you a Beginner or Advanced Vibrator User?

If you are a beginner chances are you don’t want to start getting something like the Decadent Indulgence. Instead you’ll probably want something simple like the Pocket Rocket Vibrator.

As a beginner you are more sensitive to stimulation and any super extra hard and intense stimulation will do more to scare you away then to gradually get you to vibrator pro status!

If you are more advanced, chances are you will need harder, more direct stimulation. For instance, crystal or metal beads that titillate and massage the sensitive vaginal opening may be the stimulation you need. Whereas a beginner would probably be more stimulated with pearl beads massaging the vaginal opening.

4) Do You Know Your Body Physiology?

Is your uterus long? Do you know?

Do you prefer girth? Does a thicker shaft get you more excited?

Or is it the motion in the ocean that matters?

Sometimes a vibrator (or a man for that matter) does not have to be huge in order to hit you in the right places. You just have to know what spots get you going and then you can select the best vibrator for you.

Hey I do have a flashback of one stud who, while sadly had a super small shaft, did know how to work it to to make me go berserk! Vibrators are the same way!

Those are just a few questions you should ask yourself when looking to find the best vibrator for YOU.

What other tips can you think of for selecting the best vibrator?

We want to hear from you. Speak your mind vibrator enthusiast.

Sensually,
Angelise

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Welcome to the Vibrator Review Spot Blog

Welcome to the Vibrator Review Spot. Your go to resource for Vibrator Reviews!

Lexi and Angelise here, and we’d like to welcome you to our Vibrator Review Spot (VRS) community!

We are Relationship Enhancement Specialists, sexperts and gal-pal “bosom buddies” who collectively have 14 years in the Adult Home Party business. Our passion and commitment to educating women to pursue safe and healthy romantic relationships fueled our decision to also become relationship maintenance champions. After years of partying offline we decided to share our years of “sexpertise” online with you here at VRS.

As sexperts we have attended many seminars, educational workshops, tele-seminars, and webinars, read books, articles, and most importantly have tested many products.

“Product testing” was a key factor to our success and longevity in the adult romance business. Being able to share with our clients first-hand how well a product worked was the seal of approval our clients needed in order to put their fears and inhibitions to rest, (as well as our own).

So what can you expect from being a part of the fun and community here at the Vibrator Review Spot?

Let’s first clarify what VRS is.

VRS is a healthy female-friendly atmosphere where women and men can access toy reviews, tips and sexual health articles.

While there are lots of sex toy websites out there with less than desired images and content, few offer the kind of advice we all want to hear.

This blog is for all women – no matter what age, relationship status or sexual orientation. You may be exploring your sexuality for the first time or are a sex champion but are looking for new ways to ignite your fantasies. Whatever the reason, you found this blog and are on your way to exploring, rekindling your romance and igniting your passion!

Think of this blog as your “go to girl” guide, to answer all your questions and alleviate your fears.

At VRS we intend to:

• Represent only superior quality products that earn positive reviews.
• Provide accurate and current product reviews that are written by everyday people just like you.
• Create a safe and trustworthy place for all regardless of orientation.
• Assist women in taking control of their sexuality with useful information not always presented in the manner women desire or feel comfortable with, but you tell us how far we should push the envelope.

We do stay on the classy side, but will listen to where you want us to take the conversation! Smile.

We have a very strong passion in sexual health and relationship issues which face most women today. And whether you’ve been dating for 10 months or married for 10 years we will share our stories of passion with you!

Again, a big warm welcome to VRS.

Hope you enjoy the ride as much as we do! (I guess there is a pun intended here. lol)

Lexi & Angelise

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